# inclusivepebbles.com ## Pages - [BE AN ALLY AND AN ACCOMPLICE](https://inclusivepebbles.com/be-an-ally-and-an-accomplice/): BE AN ALLY AND AN ACCOMPLICE Consider who gets interrupted in a meeting, who gets chastised for taking a controversial or contrarian position, whose ideas and achievements get appropriated, and whose opinions are categorically questioned or discounted. Consider the Black man who is told in a meeting to “settle down” when exhibiting enthusiasm during a robust discussion. Think of the person with autism who’s chastised for not making eye contact or for their difficulty reading social cues. Or the hiring manager who always uses male pronouns in conversation, assuming the candidate hired is going to be a man. These are - [Community of Champions](https://inclusivepebbles.com/community-of-champions/): Community of Champions - [Podcasts](https://inclusivepebbles.com/podcast/): PODCASTS Building Culture Through Everyday Leadership In this episode, Jonathan Stutz shares the practical tools and mindset shifts that help leaders build cultures of belonging, one moment at a time. From the power of the “pause button” in meetings to the transformative impact of asking “Are you really okay?” and waiting in silence, Jonathan reveals how empathy, listening, and vulnerability drive performance and trust. Want to be an Inclusive Leader? Habits That Build Trust, Equity, and Truly High-Performing Teams This week, Morag is joined by Jonathan Stutz—President of Global Diversity Partners, Inc., former leader at Amazon, Microsoft, and Zulily, and - [What does Inclusive leadership look like? Look no farther than Pam Maynard](https://inclusivepebbles.com/what-does-inclusive-leadership-look-like-look-no-farther-than-pam-maynard/): What does Inclusive leadership look like? Look no farther than Pam Maynard.  Pam Maynard, CEO of Avanade Another stop on our journey. Jonathan and I decided early on that we wanted to illuminate incredible leaders who epitomized the ID&E principles we were advocating in our book. It was to give readers a taste of how fortunate we’ve been by simply crossing paths with remarkable leaders and human beings. It was also to give visibility to powerful examples of leaders who led inclusively every single day. In some ways too, it allowed us to humanize these amazingly talented people and show - [Inclusive Leader Profile: Laura Clise on “Spend Like It Matters”​](https://inclusivepebbles.com/inclusive-leader-profile-laura-clise-on-spend-like-it-matters/): Inclusive Leader Profile: Laura Clise on “Spend Like It Matters” As referenced in my last blog, Eddie and I have been incredibly fortunate over the course of our careers to work with many outstanding leaders. These leaders have consistently modeled behavior that have shaped our own inclusive leadership style. A leadership style that inspires and motivates our people and our teams to grow and achieve more than any of us thought possible. It was important to us in writing our book, Daily Practices of Inclusive Leaders, to introduce you to a handful of these inclusive leaders. We begin the first - [Ed Salcedo on Inclusive Leadership](https://inclusivepebbles.com/ed-salcedo-on-inclusive-leadership/): Ed Salcedo on Inclusive Leadership By Jonathan Stutz (he/him/his) My coauthor, Eddie Pate, and I have been incredibly fortunate over the course of our careers to work with many outstanding leaders. These leaders have consistently modeled behavior that have shaped our own inclusive leadership style. A leadership style that inspires and motivates our people and our teams to grow and achieve more than any of us thought possible. It was important to us in writing our book, Daily Practices of Inclusive Leaders, to introduce you to a handful of these inclusive leaders. We begin the first 5 chapters of our book - [Who’s In Your Kitchen?](https://inclusivepebbles.com/whos-in-your-kitchen/): Who’s In Your Kitchen? In memory of inclusive leader Peggy Joan Maxie By Jonathan Stutz (he/him/his) When you entertain at home, who are the folks congregating in your kitchen (as they always seem to do)? It’s a question I routinely pose during my Inclusive Leadership training sessions. This thought exercise arose from Martin Luther King Jr.’s time in Alabama during the US civil rights movement of the 1960s. The social justice leader and his collaborators enjoyed plentiful meals in the home of activist Georgia Gilmore as they planned their strategy and tactics. Dr. King posed the question while thinking about the - [How ID&E Benefits White Men — and Everyone Else Too!​](https://inclusivepebbles.com/how-ide-benefits-white-men-and-everyone-else-too/): How ID&E Benefits White Men — and Everyone Else Too! In most western countries, white men are the most privileged, have the most power and most status of any group in the society. According to the most recent data from the Pew Research Center, white men in the US dominate leadership roles in the top U.S. political, business, and higher education positions. They are also the group most likely to push back on inclusion, diversity, and equity (ID&E) initiatives. In the US, the unspoken fear of some white men is that ID&E will lead to their displacement by people from historically underrepresented - [Photo Gallery](https://inclusivepebbles.com/photo-gallery/): Photo Gallery - [What's Happening](https://inclusivepebbles.com/whats-happening/): What’s Happening Upcoming Events No Upcoming Events  Previous Events Sunday, March 30, 2025 – 2 pm PT Barnes & Noble – Palm Desert, CA Book Discussion with coauthor, Jonathan Stutz, moderated by Aaron Day, Ed.D., Professor of Journalism, Cal State – Long Beach Sep 19, 2024 – 10 am Studio 13Seattle’s FOX13 Visit Website Aug 15, 2024 – 9:30 am Seattle KING TV showNew Day Northwest Visit Website Join us for an appearance on Seattle KING TV show (NBC affiliate) “New Day Northwest” July 10, 2024 – 6:30 pm Mercer Island Event at Island Books Visit Website Join us for - [It Takes a Village](https://inclusivepebbles.com/collaboration/): It Takes a Village In our book we talked about the concept of “Who is in your kitchen?” as a means of thinking about who we surround ourselves with, who we learn from, who inspires us, and so on. We strongly advocate having diverse voices and lived experiences in your kitchen with you. Surround yourselves with people who are different from you, who think differently, who are culturally and racially different and who will offer you a perspective that expands your reality. We also talked about the importance and power of intentionality. We proudly and intentionally worked with and engaged - [Blog](https://inclusivepebbles.com/excerpts/): Blog All Posts BE AN ALLY AND AN ACCOMPLICE 15 September 2024/ BE AN ALLY AND AN ACCOMPLICE Consider who gets interrupted in a meeting, who gets chastised for taking a controversial… Read More What does Inclusive leadership look like? Look no farther than Pam Maynard 17 April 2024/ What does Inclusive leadership look like? Look no farther than Pam Maynard.  Pam Maynard, CEO of Avanade Another stop on… Read More Inclusive Leader Profile: Laura Clise on “Spend Like It Matters”​ 9 April 2024/ Inclusive Leader Profile: Laura Clise on “Spend Like It Matters” As referenced in my last blog, - [About](https://inclusivepebbles.com/about/): VIDEO INTRODUCTION ABOUT THE AUTHORS Eddie Pate, Ph.D Eddie Pate, PhD (he/him/his), writes about inclusion, diversity, and equity(ID&E). He has a doctorate in sociology from the University of Washington and a bachelor’s degree in wildlife management from Humboldt State University, where he is a member of its athletic Hall of Fame for football. Eddie has spent seventeen years doing ID&E work for Microsoft, Starbucks, Avanade, and Amazon, primarily in leadership roles. He has also spent six years doing ID&E speaking and consulting via his consulting practice, Eddie Pate Speaking and Consulting; he is a sought-after speaker, facilitator, and guide who - [Contact](https://inclusivepebbles.com/contact/): Contact Us Got questions or feedback? Fill out this form and we will respond shortly. Please enable JavaScript in your browser to complete this form.Please enable JavaScript in your browser to complete this form.Full Name *Email *NumbersMessage Submit - [Order](https://inclusivepebbles.com/order/): GET YOUR COPY NOW Diversity and inclusion training and books have flooded the market, but the gap between what Is promised and what is delivered is beginning to undermine the progress that has been made. There are millions of people who strive to make a difference in workplace diversity and inclusion. And with this practical, leader-friendly framework, Daily Practices of Inclusive Leaders will equip readers with the actionable tools they’ve been searching for. Leaders will learn: Why you’re the key to inclusion Insights for the lifelong journey Successful practices they can start today And more Order from Your Preferred Book - [Home](https://inclusivepebbles.com/): Praise for “Daily Practices of Inclusive Leaders” What Leaders Will Learn Why you’re the key to inclusion Insights for the lifelong journey Successful practices you can start today Order Now What Leaders Will Learn​ Why you’re the key to inclusion Insights for the lifelong journey Successful practices you can start today Order Now Sound Bites from the Book Exclusive Videos Latest Updates & Upcoming events Sunday, March 30, 2025 – 2 pm PT Barnes & Noble – Palm Desert, CA Book Discussion with coauthor, Jonathan Stutz, moderated by Aaron Day, Ed.D., Professor of Journalism, Cal State – Long Beach Contact - [Resources](https://inclusivepebbles.com/resources/): Recommended Books to Read: Load More End of Content. Articles to Read on ID&E Goal Setting: 25+ Examples of Awesome Diversity Goals (2023 Update)  Performance Goals That Support Diversity & Inclusion  Article on Performative ID&E: Performative Allyship: What Are The Signs And Why Leaders Get Exposed Harvard’s Implicit Bias Test Harvard Implicit Bias Test - [Videos](https://inclusivepebbles.com/videos/): Recommended Videos to Watch: Shared Understanding: https://youtu.be/AoRKnOh4-Bk?si=2IeRqkCQ2R7QB3tR Global Diversity Tree: https://youtu.be/-IGAZ1m79mg?si=VYFmPtaeWf29BxGr Lessons from the Diversity Tree: https://youtu.be/_beQLw47A2M?si=YSj8GE9sn9sqq2bg Diversity as a Process: https://youtu.be/TQ-aBtoIVeg?si=gG6skYG20FaB6kfov Inclusion: https://youtu.be/wRqruptDfzM?si=i7zg25gwGaOZPQ4w Equity: https://youtu.be/EXXGpqIgXmk?si=jZykJcaNh4twod0A Intersectionality: https://youtu.be/srzC7Cq6T-4?si=Smw1IbTxS2kWpJMD Empathy and Belonging: https://youtu.be/vmwBu-rs-LI?si=ytYp316402CIk3DR Structure, Policy, and Process: https://youtu.be/t54o0xmlrPg?si=rTkTSIz39piTZZSw Additional Video Learning Resources: Silent Beats: https://youtu.be/76BboyrEl48 Role Reversal Video: https://youtu.be/JFW2cfzevio?si=_m70RBwL-1PV0-XQ Redraw the Balance: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qv8VZVP5csA That Little Voice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ll56imVATLk PWC Unconscious Bias: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BFcjfqmVah8 Microaggressions and Racism: https://youtu.be/8RfwnibEd3A?si=0WYhPEqkx3kMw4af What is Intersectionality: https://youtu.be/-885E7gqVB4 The Look: A Story about Bias in America: https://youtu.be/aC7lbdD1hq0?si=3vldANx-qNsPiDbI Blind Spots: Enhanced Objectivity: https://youtu.be/Pn5qOgz8dqs Speak up for Inclusion: https://youtu.be/pBBirlVxVsg How to Be an Antiracist by Ibram X. 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